let go or be dragged

just wondering what this means to people? 

for me...i used to try waaaaay too hard to make things "perfect" and do what i thought i should be doing.  now that "should" is no longer invited to be in my vocabulary i feel happier. 

still... i know that with 2 kids and a husband there are things that must get done.  i'm realizing that i feel more motivated to get those tasks done when my self is supported.  it has taken many years to get to this happy place which makes it all the more rewarding.

to my friends who are reading this, please comment with your thoughts... i am eager to hear.